Jolisa Clare Holistic
Trauma Release & Recovery
Experiences from Those I’ve Had the Honor to Support
Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of holding space for individuals navigating trauma, grief, emotional overwhelm, life transitions, and nervous system dysregulation through my spirit-led approach, Cross Reference Healing. At Jolisa Clare Holistic, each healing journey is deeply personal and unique.
The experiences shared here offer a glimpse into the peace, healing, and restoration that can unfold when the body, mind, and spirit are gently supported together. In my experience, the body, mind, and spirit are deeply interconnected. Emotional experiences may influence physical well-being, and physical challenges can affect emotional and spiritual health. Through forgiveness, self-awareness, and addressing underlying emotional stories, many individuals find greater peace, resilience, and a renewed sense of balance.
Many people I support discover connections between past experiences, unresolved emotions, stress patterns, and the challenges they face in daily life. By bringing awareness, compassion, and forgiveness to these experiences, they often uncover new pathways toward healing, personal growth, and restoration.
To honor privacy and confidentiality, some names and identifying details may be changed. These stories are shared with permission and are intended for inspirational and educational purposes only. The experiences shared on this page are personal reflections from individuals and represent their own perspectives and outcomes. Individual experiences and results will vary.
Cross Reference Healing and the healing support provided through Jolisa Clare Holistic are intended to encourage personal growth, emotional wellness, spiritual exploration, and self-awareness. They are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any medical or psychological condition and are not a substitute for professional medical, mental health, or therapeutic care. Individuals should consult qualified healthcare professionals regarding any medical or mental health concerns.
Jolisa Clare
"I came to Jolisa during one of the most emotional seasons of my life — eight months pregnant, overwhelmed with fear, anxiety, nightmares, and constant overthinking surrounding the birth of my breech baby. I had never experienced Emotional Polarity Technique™ before and honestly did not know what to expect.
From the moment we began, I felt safe, supported, and deeply seen. During our session, Jolisa gently helped me uncover deeper fears and emotional roots I had been carrying surrounding birth and medical experiences. What unfolded during that hour was unlike anything I had experienced before — tears, laughter, peace, release, and clarity all at once.
Although my baby ultimately arrived through a C-section, something profound shifted within me. Instead of panic and fear, I felt calm, grounded, and emotionally at peace throughout the experience. That session changed the way I walked through birth entirely.
Jolisa’s presence is thoughtful, intuitive, compassionate, and deeply impactful. The work we did together was transformational, and I left feeling lighter, safer, and more connected to myself than I had in a very long time."
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Lindsey
"I was skeptical when I first heard about Jolisa. I’d never heard of muscle testing before and I didn’t understand it. My partner and I were both actively looking for therapists for awhile before he reached out and made an appointment with Jolisa after finding her website in a google search. He came home from that appointment different. Better.
I can’t explain how I knew that something had shifted in him within hours after that first appointment but I was sold and called to get myself on her schedule the next day. I worked with Jolisa several times a month for about a year and completely transformed myself and my life in that time. I fought many demons, including lifelong battles with multiple addictions and countless self sabotaging and self harm behaviors. I’m 36 years old and have spent most of my life in rehabs, jails or toxic relationships constantly trying to find my way out of those hells through endless talk therapy sessions. I could never get to the root of the problem with talk therapy because most of my childhood/adolescence was blocked out in my memories due to trauma but Jolisa was able to find the root cause immediately and helped me sort through and release the effects from decades of traumatic experiences and narcissistic abuse.
I no longer struggle with the addictions, and the self harm and self sabotaging behaviors like skin picking (which was severe for me) have resolved themselves and the physical effects have healed. My partner, who chronically bit his nails his whole life, was able to overcome the bad habit with just a few sessions and his anxiety has decreased substantially. We are both thriving and happy together now. Jolisa has also worked with 3 of our children who run to hug her when they see her. They’ve all had some rough experiences of their own and Jolisa does an amazing job healing their hearts and helping to balance their body, mind and spirits."
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Casey
"For years, I developed increasingly strong reactions around oranges and orange-related products. What began with avoiding orange juice eventually extended to orange zest, flavoring, and even blossoms. I truly believed this was something I would have to live with permanently.
When I was referred to Jolisa, I was skeptical. She gently suggested there may be a deeper emotional connection contributing to what my body was experiencing and believed we could explore it together through her healing approach.
Our sessions were unlike anything I had experienced before — emotional, eye-opening, and deeply releasing. During that process, unresolved emotional roots and stress responses began surfacing in ways I had never connected before.
After my second session, something shifted. I cautiously tried an orange-based drink on my way home and realized I was no longer experiencing the same reaction patterns I had struggled with before. I was overwhelmed with relief and gratitude.
What impacted me most was not only the experience itself, but the compassion, intuition, and care Jolisa brought into the process. Over the years that followed, I continued returning to her for support through other life challenges and healing journeys, along with members of my family. Her work has brought lasting peace, insight, and transformation into our lives in ways I never expected.”
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Carol
"Working with Jolisa has been one of the most impactful investments I’ve made in my health and personal growth. Over the years, she has helped me learn how to truly feel and process my emotions, understand how they can show up physically in the body, and walk through life’s challenges with more clarity and peace.
Recently, during my pregnancy, I was diagnosed with a hematoma next to the baby on ultrasound. As I’ve done with other health concerns, I brought this to Jolisa. She gently helped me explore what might be going on beneath the surface emotionally and supported me in working through it.
Just one week later, I went in for a follow-up scan, and my doctor shared that the hematoma was either completely gone or had reduced to the point that it was no longer visible on ultrasound.
I’ve had several powerful experiences like this through EPT™, but this one felt especially meaningful. I’m so grateful for Jolisa’s insight, compassion, and the way she walks alongside her clients. I truly can’t recommend her enough."
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Morgan